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Carol Stone, business economist & active Episcopalian, brings you "Ways of the World". Exploring business & consumers & stewardship, we'll discuss everyday issues: kids & finances, gas prices, & some larger issues: what if foreigners start dumping our debt? And so on. We can provide answers & seek out sources for others. We'll talk about current events & perhaps get different perspectives from what the media says. Write to Carol. Let her know what's important to you: carol@geraniumfarm.org

Tuesday, December 02, 2008

Is Scooping Up a Bargain Worth the Loss of Someone's Life?

We write today to remember someone you've probably never heard of, a faceless guy, just one of the staff members at some 4,000 Wal-Mart stores across the country last Friday morning at 5:00AM, standing at the ready to unlock the doors and let the hoards of waiting customers in for their annual Black Friday shopping bash. The early-morning, pre-dawn crowds at Wal-Marts and other stores were chompin' at the bit to get inside to grab one of those name-brand flat-screen HDTV for "just" $798 or a compact vacuum cleaner going for only $28 or the just-released DVD of The Incredible Hulk at a mere 9 bucks! You'd be excited too and want to be sure you were one of the lucky 100 or 200 to go home with one or more of these sought-after crack-of-dawn prizes.

At the Wal-Mart in Valley Stream, New York, some 2,000 people were waiting. Someone from the store told them the store would hope a few minutes ahead and their anticipation grew, but then the unkind spokesperson retreated, saying, no, that was only a joke, and they got really hot-under-their-collars. People at the back of the crowd were already pressing forward, and in an instant the onrush of bodies pushed right through the front doors, breaking them off their frame. Jdimytai Damour, a 250-plus-pound maintenance man, was just inside. Despite his size, he was toppled over. He lay there and people stepped on, over and around him as they headed toward their favorite departments. The mob kept coming. Store employees and even police trying to rush to Damour's aid were jostled as well. Four other people were also pushed down, including a young woman eight months pregnant. She, with her baby, spent the day at a hospital and they'll both be fine. Mr. Damour will not be fine. He was finally picked up and taken to a hospital, where he suffered cardiac arrest and died shortly after 6:00. He was 34 years old.

These accounts of the event come from New York Newsday and the New York Times[1]. One of The Times stories[2] included a picture of a crowd at a Wal-Mart rushing and pushing Friday morning at 5:00, but the people in that picture were in Elk City, Oklahoma. Clearly, New York has no monopoly on aggressive shoppers.

People who were surging out of control to shop for toys, electronics and Christmas items killed a man. What can we say about this?

Early reactions from politicians seem to blame the store. Not enough security, they argue; the store should have been better prepared. The store's managers assert that they did have extra guards and they had erected barricades. By Sunday, local officials were already drafting legislation mandating specific security provisioning. Personal injury lawyers are already filing lawsuits.

Psychologists blame the crowd mentality: individuals lose their individuality in such circumstances and behave in animalistic ways they would never dream of if they had time to think about it. Possibly.

We find that we're at a loss: we really don't know what to say back. We read some David Brooks yesterday. He's the pop-sociologist who wrote Bobos in Paradise; we picked up his following book, On Paradise Drive, about the outgrowth of American cities into suburbs and then on to exurbs. Brooks describes shopping as a way people strive toward some envisioned sense of perfection. They're quite serious in this pursuit, which includes detailed research and planning and analysis of the results with a gravity befitting a scientific experiment, a diplomatic mission or a mountain-climbing expedition. For example, of customers at a discount price club, Brooks says : "They are the savvy marketplace swashbucklers who have achieved such impressive price-tag victories that they will return home in glory to recount tales of the triumphs to tables of rapt dinner guests."[3]

This approach echoes a commentary we actually wrote here now more than two years ago. "Better Living Through Shopping" is the title of that piece, from late August 2006. With the help of a marketing expert, we explored the dual gratification that can come from shopping. There is the obvious pleasure in having the items shopped for: the new waterproof, windproof parka made of AquaCheck laminate with PolarThin insulation and a Sherpa fleece-lined collar, the Bluetooth stereo headset that accommodates both phone service and MP3 music, and so on. But almost as significant is the pleasure in making the acquisition, the actual shopping experience. In these days of tight credit and slim wallets, more of us are going to Wal-Marts, one of the few store chains to see sales growth and continued profitability. We are even more anxious than usual for the bargains we can find there. The early morning Black Friday event would have given a real boost to our spirits. Clearly, though, there's another angle. Peter Goodman of The Times calls this violent episode "a shopping Guernica", in which the crowds came to "engage in early-morning shopping as contact sport". [4]

Our visit with this shopping issue in 2006 was focused on loose credit and free spending that seemed to carry little substance. Today, though, our concern is much deeper. Frivolous buying is minor compared with our distress over what this particular experience became. And as our tone may convey, we don't think it's lack of security planning by the stores that's the problem. We could better understand the panicked surging of the crowd if it had been headed for scarce food and water or to try touching a religious icon on parade at a shrine. But harming people indiscriminately in order to grab a new digital camera? You have to be kidding. I wish I were . . . .
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[1] Both from November 29, 2008

[2] Peter Goodman, "A Shopping Guernica Captures the Moment", from The Week in Review section of the Sunday Times, November 30, 2008. Accessed from
http://www.nytimes.com/.

[3] David Brooks, On Paradise Drive. New York: Simon & Schuster. 2004. P. 61.

[4] Goodman, loc. cit. I had to look up Guernica, too. It refers to the town in Spain victimized during the Spanish Civil War where soldiers went through recklessly murdering everyone in sight, especially women and children. It occasioned a famous painting by Picasso, which immortalized the name of the town as a symbol for such vulgar deeds. [We are wrong here about rampaging soldiers. See the Comment below by Rosemarie, who corrects our misunderstanding. It's a much more interesting story than we thought.]

18 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Reasons such as "crowd mentality" may explain, in part, but they do not excuse. There are such thigsn as large external forces at work on human beings, but there is also. always, such a thing as perosnal responibsility. We have CHOICES in life -- unless we abdicate them.

If we fill our lives with the living water, we won't be thirsty for the cheap stuff. I think shopping has become a religion in modern times, and it makes a poor one.

End of sermon!

12/02/2008 10:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

In answer to your question, "is it worth it?" -- I know it was a rhetorical question, yet I wonder how it would sound if we answered "yes" or "no" and then made up a rationale for either response.

It would be hard to imagine anyone answering "yes" but isn't that how shoppers responded when they continued their shopping anyway? As for those who would answer "no" did they, too, continue their shopping or did they slink miserably back to their cars horrified by the event.

Your lament surely comments on the human condition and your conclusion makes us shake our heads with dismay. Is there no hope left for us? What would Jesus say?

-- Mary, a church friend from Long Island

12/02/2008 10:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Too many think they are defined by what they own and/or how they got it.

Great piece.
-- Tom, an economist colleague from suburban New Jersey

12/02/2008 10:48 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think that if you examine the daily media, you will conclude that Americans (and perhaps others) have abandoned the concept of personal responsibility and accountability. No individual is ever to blame. The government is to blame, the police are to blame, the store is to blame, the school is to blame, the teachers are to blame. How many times have you read of a parent going to a school and protesting the low mark a teacher gave his or her child, and very often succeeding in bullying the teacher to raise the grade? How many times have you read of parents vehemently denying that their child was responsible for an act of vandalism and charged the police with brutality? How many times have you read of richly, even princely, paid executives denying liability for their failures, casting blame on the government or on lower level employees. In the last few years we have been treated to watching the administration blame a few very low level soldiers for the misdeeds at Abu Ghraib while higher ranking officials including the Secretary of Defense went unpunished. Until some miracle occurs, and frankly I have no hope of such, and individuals begin to accept responsibilty and accountability and require it of their children, you will see more incidents such as the one at Wal-Mart.

12/04/2008 8:58 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I was as astounded as the rest of the world at the untimely and horrific death of the young man in Walmart. What has happened to us? Are we so obsessed with "bargain" that we lose sight of anything and anyone else? It saddens me that this is the message we are sending to our children. I too, work in retail and was amazed at the people lined up the day after
Thanksgiving to make purchases in the pre-dawn hours. The day before was spent giving thanks for our families, friends, and neighbors, then a mad dash to check out bargains! When I left work on saturday, I reminded people
that Sunday was the first Sunday in Advent,and to take a moment to watch and listen. It was not said in a holier than thou tone, just a gentle reminder among co-workers. I pray that we all watch and listen, and pray for the family of the young man in Long Island. Susan

12/04/2008 9:42 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you for your article. I was hoping when I went to church last Sunday that this would have been mentioned ...it wasn't . I too have been haunted by his death. If the scene had been the last helicopter out of Saigon at the end of the war, the only truck delivering water in a drought ravaged country one could imagine and understand the desperation ...but a "bargain" ? Do these people who ran through and over him count murder among their sins? Is this even on their minds?..did it register ?... "A life ended as a result of what I did."? I think it was Victor Frankl who wrote in his account of his years in Nazi Concentration camps, with all the death and suffering that he saw, that what chilled him the most , to the core of his soul , was one early motning when the guards were marching the prisoners out in the freezing snow to work or relocate and most to die,to be shot... he had a glimpse of a guard taking his coffee break, unhappy , I think with his roll or coffee and bored...just bored ,as if he was a toll-collector on a bridge for the thousandth day...in what was clearly for him just another day on his monotonous job..while human lives ended before him. This was the moment that most horrified Victor Frankl ,seeing minds numbed to the point of such indifference to human life.

So I welcome your article..because I need to visit this. I think I need to pray, picturing the moment this happened - with Christ walking into the scene..I need to pray and talk and heal around this because this makes me despise my fellow man ..my knee-jerk reaction...and I know that can't be where I leave myself in relation to what happened. Your article spurs me to the need for some action on my part.
Thanks,
Dianne Robbins


P.S. I am the illustrator who did the art on Barbara's "Mary and Her Miracle" and the "Pennies From Heaven" fund raising.

12/04/2008 9:47 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Never again can we say that we are somehow better than "them" - more civilized, less barbaric. Look what "we" did on the Friday after Thanksgiving. This is the news story that has impacted me more than any other in my life. More than 911, more than the terrorist attacks in India. Maybe it's because my first thought was, "who needs terrorists when ordinary Americans regard plasma TVs ahead of human life?" Later my thought was confirmed when I saw that shoppers were upset that they had to stop shopping because a man had died, complaining that they had been waiting for hours to shop.

12/04/2008 10:27 AM  
Blogger MsLadyLib said...

The simple answer to the question in the title is, of course, "no."

A better question might be "Is scooping up a bargain worth my time, energy, dignity, and missing sleep, just to get a deal on something I don't need?"

We speak of values in our society. I don't see them here, in the shoppers, or in the management of Wal-Mart, either.

12/04/2008 11:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The incident and your article took me beyond shock. The other comments triggered a recognition of the ripple effect or lack of it. Why do we sometimes respond to the "rock into the puddle" with "Big deal...plop, splash--one guy, one freak accident; doesn't affect me" and at other times observe ALL the ripples: "So sad!...the world is crazy!...make someone pay!...teach our children better!...what would Jesus have done?...what could I have done?" This mystifys me as I question my own religious beliefs and change my prayer to "lead us not into despair and deliver us from cynicism AND overwhelmedness".
Thanks for making me think.
Ponderous

12/04/2008 11:48 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My church did preach on this unfortunate event. The Rector compared it to the AA premise of having to hit bottom before you can begin to heal. He felt our society was near the bottom and hopefully would begin to live more humane lives. I 'm not sure I agree but I do hope this will make us think more about our fellow humans.

12/04/2008 11:58 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don't like WalMart either, but they are not the epitome of American greed; WE are. WalMart exists because we shop there. Unfortunately, this could have happened at any store in the country. It's PEOPLE who are at fault; not the security, the lawyers, the employees, the WalMart mentality, or anything else. The lesson Americans need to learn is that we ourselves are responsible for our own actions; there is absolutely no one else at fault here other than the people who mobbed the store. If this happened in another country we'd be the first to call them barbarians. We need to take a hard look at ourselves.

12/04/2008 6:08 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I cannot stop thinking about that young man, who opened the doors and died. I thought about Jesus dying all over again, only this time at Wall Mart. Are things more important than people? Can all the blue light specials ever add up to a human life? Greed has brought us to this awful economic time and greed cannot free us from our problems. My husband was wearing a t-shirt with the Tibetan symbol for compassion on it, and the English word "compassion" printed underneath it. A man came up to him and asked, "What does compassion mean"?

12/04/2008 9:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yes I am haunted by the death of the young man at WalMart - and equally haunted, somehow, about how quickly the family filed a lawsuit against WalMart - have they buried their dead yet? I do have a great deal of compassion for the family's loss, but is their reaction to correct a potential problem from occurring again, or to profit by it? I wish I didn't think things like this, but unfortunately I do. And what about the shoppers - surely they knew they were stepping on a body -how can they not speak up?

12/04/2008 9:37 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am haunted by the Wal Mart story. I was so haunted that I couldn't shut up about it all weekend. At two holiday parties, family gatherings, and in public where someone was trapped with me (like in the checkout line), I babbled about this being haunted. "What has the world come to? What is wrong with this country? We call other communities uncivilized, who torture and kill others". I am glad to hear that someone else is haunted - no offense. I'm amazed at the number of people who aren't haunted enough.

Thank you for validating my feelings!

12/04/2008 9:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The significant aspect of Guernica was that it was the first air attack on a civilian population, as a prelude to WWII. The Spanish Fascists and the Nazis used Guernica as a practice run for their Air Force. To the best of my knowledge, the massacre memorialized by Picasso had very
little to do with marauding troops. If you look at the painting, you may see the head of a cow or bull. This is to show how indiscriminate the bombing was and that many living creatures died in addition to humans.

12/04/2008 9:56 PM  
Blogger Carol S. said...

Thanks to ALL of you for responding. Clearly this event struck a sensitive nerve within many people. I am gratified that we here on the Farm can be a forum where you can vent, in any number of ways. I'm sorry, at the same time, that we have to do it at all . . .

Thanks too to Rosemarie, who gave us better information on Guernica.

Please continue to write in, as you might be moved. This issue is obviously not going to go away soon.

12/04/2008 9:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

How did things get so important to us that life is not? I am horrified by the pictures of this event and how we have gone so far away from the peace and love that resonates from these holidays. How could people first knock this gentleman over, then rush by him with their filled shopping carts, as he lay dying on the sidewalk? I pray that at least some shoppers learned something that day. I for one could not have made a single purchase after witnessing this.

12/05/2008 10:15 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Perhaps I'm too much a "yes, that's the human condition" when I learn of unfortunate event as this.
I was reminded today of other similar events by a photo in the KC Star of the faithful making their Hajj to Mecca. How many years have we read news reports of pilgrims trampled to death in religious fervor? How do we rein in frenzied excitement and bring prudent action to the fore without also crushing the human spirit?
One way is this way-public dialogue. Thank you, Carol, for your part in promoting learning and awareness. Chari

12/06/2008 10:14 PM  

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